Summer Seminar Programmes 2012

Here we are with the Summer Seminar Programmes for 2012!

Every summer, DBYAC offers two important seminars for all those working with and for the youth. So, once again, here is your chance to equip yourself with skills and techniques to understand and work with the young people. They are:

• Seminar on Skills in Youth Ministry
• Seminar on Counselling the youth

 Details will be given in a very short time....

The Christmas Ten Commandments

The Christmas Ten Commandments re-written to suit us today…

 1.      You shall not leave "Christ" out of Christmas, making it "Xmas."  To some, "X" stands for the unknown. Christ is the reason for the season!

2.      You shall prepare your soul for Christmas.  Spend not so much on gifts that your soul is forgotten (a good confession is a nice way to prepare your heart for Christmas).

3.      You shall not let Santa Claus replace Christ, thus robbing the day of its spiritual reality (Prepare yourself with prayer and the Word of God).

4.      You shall not neglect your church.  Its services highlight the true meaning of the season.   Contribute to the wellbeing of your Church.

5.      You shall not neglect the needy. Share thy blessings with many who will go hungry and cold unless you are generous.

6.      You shall not neglect thy family during this season. You shall not forget the elderly and those who are lonely at Christmas time.

7.      You shall not value gifts received by their cost.  Even the least expensive may signify love, and that is more priceless than silver and gold. You shall give yourself with your gift.  This will increase its value a hundred fold, and he who receives it shall treasure it forever.

8.      You shall prepare your home with Christmas symbols (the crib, Christmas carols, the Advent wreath, the star, the angels, the Christmas tree etc.).

9.      You shall be as a little child.  Not until you have become in spirit as a little one are you ready to enter into the kingdom of Heaven.

10. You shall give your heart to Christ.  Let Him be at the top of your Christmas list.

Have a wonderful Christmas celebration with Child Jesus in your hearts and in your homes!

Celebrating the Christmas Joy with Neighbouring Religious

It is Christmas time: at DBYAC, Ennore it is a time of Celebration and Fellowship. It is a time of expressing and living the solidarity of the clergy and religious of the Ennore area.

The annual feature of Christmas get-together of the parish priests & religious of the neighbourhood was held on saturday, 16th December 2011 in our campus. Parish priests of Eranavur, Bharathiyar Nagar and Tiruvotriyur were the clergy along with sisters from different congregations as varied as our Salesian Sisters (FMA), Sisters of Charity, FSJ sisters, JMJ sisters, SMA sisters, Seva Missionary sisters and Sisters of Nava Jeevan Community.

The hall was beautifully decorated and a grand crib was created by our young men of the centre, Muthu, Rajesh and Vellankanni. It formed a fitting background to the celebrations of the evening.

Fr. Felix began the proceedings with a well-thought and meaningful prayer service. The highlight was placing the different protaganists  of the crib by the religious themselves. Child Jesus took centre-stage and was rightly honoured and felicitated by all gathered by singing carols in Tamil, English, Hindi and Malayalam.

A time of fun and games followed during which time different communities sang carols, played some fun games and enjoyed themselves.

And then followed the Agape Meal - food brought by different communities were shared among each other.

Finally, everyone wished Merry Christmas, prayed together one last time and left for their respective communities promising to be back for the same next year.

A Formation Seminar for Formators

Don Bosco Youth Animation Centre, Ennore was once again a beehive of activity. Salesian Formators from different parts of South East Asia were gathered together for five days of togetherness and celebration.

A national level seminar on “Affective Maturity” was conducted by SAFC (South Asian Formation Commission) for the formation personnel from 26 to 30^th November 2011 at Don Bosco Youth Animation Centre, DBYAC, Ennore. All the Novice Masters, the rectors of the various philosophates and prenovitiates, the formation delegates of the provinces, and the delegates from the various formation houses sans theologates, 43 in all, attended this disturbing – as some of the participants would put it – and challenging seminar and workshop conducted by Fr. Mariadass Selvarathinam OMI from Sri Lanka.

Fr. Chrys Saldana sdb, of the formation department in Rome, during the inaugural mass invited the participants to look deeper into themselves and their emotions and to be committed to their own search or quest for God in their lives – the core of religious life. That was the anchor point around which the whole seminar revolved: the formation of the formators.

Several sessions of input and in-depth sharing in small groups left the participants mesmerized, confused and uncomfortable – Not  the way in which the seminar was organized. No one could point a finger at Fr. Loddy, SAFC Co-ordinator, who with his meticulous planning not only made our stay comfortable but also an enjoyable one with a half day of outing to Little Mount and to St. Bede’s for a sumptuous dinner.

Thanks to Fr. Jospeh Jeyaraj, Fr. Henry and Bro. Lobo and to the pastoral community at DBYAC, Ennore.

The participants were confused and uncomfortable to realize that first and foremost they needed formation and that they need to start the spiritual struggle which is life-long. A formator is called to co-journey with the formee. Therefore it is a journey of both the formee as well as the formator.

What emerged from these discussions were:

·         In this co-journeying with the formee, the formator himself needs supervision.

·         We need a radical shift in our formation process – from legality to spirituality, from falling in line to falling in love with the core of one’s being which is LOVE.

·         We need to move from duality to acceptance, wholeness, integration and oneness. The journey toward oneness is true spirituality. Reaching oneness is mysticism. The end of formation is mysticism.

·         The participants returned home with a bag full of homework to do – to start the journey, to struggle through the journey (Spirituality) and hopefully reach the end Oneness, Mysticism.

Fr. Stalin Arokiam Dhanraj

Jubilant welcome to Don Bosco in Ennore

Fr Paul Raj Amal - Chennai, Oct. 29. 2011
The casket with the relic of Don Bosco received a jubilant welcome at the Don Bosco Youth Animation Centre (DBYAC), Ennore, as it arrived at 8.15 a.m., today. More than 1500 school children and about 2500 people waited in eager expectation as the vehicle with the relic inched its way through the narrow streets towards DBYAC, in the northern suburb of Chennai. The vehicle was escorted by the youth of the neighbourhood on their motor bikes.

Fr Andrew, parish priest of Ennore, blessed the relic at Mother Teresa`s Home for the Aged and Mentally Challenged, from where it was taken in joyous procession to the DBYAC campus. A splendid welcome dance by the students of St. Joseph`s Matriculation school and a stunning performance of `kolattam` by teachers of the same school added colour and grace to the occasion. Fr. Joseph Jeyaraj, the Rector, officiated at the prayer service while Fr. Henry Selvaraj gave a short talk on Don Bosco and explained the significance of the relic. Five students from the Evening School spoke on what Don Bosco meat for them. The parish choir kept singing hymns to Don Bosco as waves of people kept surging into the campus to catch a glimpse of the saint and venerate him.

Finally, the Salesian community of DBYAC garlanded the casket and knelt around their beloved Father and prayed three Hail Marys, recalling the day 160 years ago when Don Bosco himself had knelt with an orphan boy named Bartolomeo Garelli to say that same prayer, marking the very beginning of his work for the poor youngsters of Turin. The whole assembly joined the Salesian community in this profound moment of homage.

The services of more than a hundred volunteers chosen from among the DBYAC youth, the parish Vincent de Paul Society and the Salesian Cooperators ensured perfect order and discipline right through the event.

A Prayer before Exams

Loving God, as I begin this time of exams,
I feel some anxiety and frustration.
Help me to stay focused.

Give me a clear mind,

to perform to the best of my ability.
Help me to study with dedication and vigor.

Grant me silence so that I may process the knowledge I have obtained.
Let me sleep peacefully at night, so that I am refreshed and renewed for my upcoming exams.

Be with me, gentle God, during these days.
Please sustain me,
I pray to you, my dear Lord.
Please never let me panic nor get nervous
Just let me be at ease and give my very best

Please never let me guess nor rely on pure luck
but enlighten my mind and let me think clearly

Please never let me resort to chances nor to dishonesty
but let me work to the fullest of my ability

I pray for your guidance that as i think,
I may find the right solutions,
I may be able to correctly answer the questions
I may solve those difficult problems

I ask, oh Lord, your intercession that as i write,
I may not be careless nor overconfident
I may not be distracted but be more concentrated
I may not be in a hurry nor take the exams too lightly.

As I am getting ready to take the examinations
Let me, with your help, give my best effort
Let me, because of You, receive the best and fruitful result.

Mary, Mother of my spiritual life,
guide me in the ways of your Son,
so that my work may help
to transform this world for His glory.

I make this prayer in your precious Name, Jesus Christ - Amen

Online Networking Needed says BENEDICT XVI

Pope Benedict XVI says ONLINE PRESENCE IMPORTANT FOR THE CATHOLIC CHURCH in his message for the 45th World Day of Communications

MAKE OF YOURSELVES SOMETHING BEAUTIFUL

The Rector Major invites the young people of the Salesian Youth Movement to  make something beautiful of their lives. The message, taking up the theme of the Strenna “Come and see,” is an exhortation to the young to be in the name of Christ, protagonists in society and in the Church.

During the Mass at which he presided in the Basilica of Mary Help of Christians in Valdocco, on the Feast of Don Bosco, Fr Pascual Chávez gave his message to the Salesian Youth Movement around the world, in the name of the saint of youth: “I can do nothing better than speak with the heart of our Father Don Bosco.”

Fr Chávez, as though it were Don Bosco speaking personally, allows the saint to describe his experience of faith and of his vocation. He invites the young to find in their own lives those things which had helped him to grow: Mamma Margaret (the family), adults to look up to, a climate of human and Christian values. “when I had to make important decisions, I came across people enlightened by the Holy Spirit who helped me to understand that life is a vocation and implies self-giving, and they guided me in listening to the Lord’s call and in accepting the mission He was entrusting to me.” Valdocco: “a workshop where a vocational culture was fashioned.”
The young are invited to look for witnesses and guides in their family and their surroundings who “are “our John the Baptists.” Those who once again can show us the Lord of Life!” Jesus asks, as he did with the disciples of John: ”Who are you looking for?”  The young should then ask the apostles’ question: «Master, where do you live?»  and accept the Lord’s invitation “Come and see.”

“When you ask, my dear young people «what should we do to give to our lives real meaning?» look at that Man who has loved us so much as to give himself totally for us. He is the model for every plan of life, and the faithful and full response to every vocation, because he is a Man totally focused on a central idea”. In contract with “the butterfly person,” who is content with an ephemeral life, there is the “rock of a man” “firmly anchored and rooted in a solid foundation which unifies and harmonises his life with the will of the Father, which guides everything he does and everything he says, which fills all his activity and his prayer.”

To the young invited not to live their life as though it were “a simple biological process,” the Rector Major declares: “You are called to be protagonists in society and in the Church: «you are the salt of the earth and the light of the world» as Jesus would say”.

The message then becomes a challenge: “Yes, my dear young people! “Today” God needs you to “re-make” the world.” The Salesian Family is the ideal setting in which to take their place, finding among the various models of life, religious, consecrated and lay, their own. “I pray for you my dear young people, so that today many of you will allow yourselves to be captivated, fascinated by God to the point of giving yourselves totally to Him.” He offers encouragement to the  Salesians so that they “may live with joy and fidelity the great experience of spiritual fatherhood.”

The full text of the Rector Major’s message to the young people of the SYM is available on sdb.org.

VOCATION GUIDANCE: A MISSION RELAUNCH

Mumbai, 26th January, 2011

(Two of the members of Youth Animation Centre are part of the Vocation Animation Team that participated in the National Level Conference at Mumbai on Vocation Guidance in South Asia)

The South Asia Vocation Guidance Meet ends with a unanimous commitment to relaunch the mission of creating a culture of vocations in the individual provinces. There were 30 participants from the provinces of India and the Vice province of Srilanka. The Rector Major and the General Councillor were present in spirit, the former through the call to create a culture of vocations through the strenna for this year and the latter with the video conference he gave to the participants.

Organised by the DBYASA, the Meet was convened by the Delegate for Vocation Guidance for DBYASA Rev. Fr. Brian Moras sdb and present all through were Rev. Fr. Joe Almeida, the Provincial incharge of Vocation Guidance in the SPCSA and Rev. Fr. Maria Charles the Director of DBYASA. Thanks to the hosting Province of Mumbai and its Provincial house, the meeting was a pleasant experience. Now that the annual exercise is over, what do we expect out of this?

A boom in the number of vocations? No. That is not what the theme concerns itself about. Rev. Fr. Fabio Attard, the General Councillor put it succinctly during his video conference saying, ‘the culture of vocations has not got to do with numbers but to do with the whole picture of Don Bosco’s Charismatic experience.’ A youngster to feel at home with your proposal of a vocation has first to feel at home with you, said the Councillor, drawing attention to why the Rector Major calls Don Bosco an ingenious Voction Animator – because he created an atmosphere where the young felt at home to search for meaning to their life.

Keeping with the theme, Creating a Culture of Vocations the presentations of the three resource persons, Fr. Ajoy Fernandes the Vice Provincial of Mumbai, Fr. Maria Charles the Director of DBYASA and Fr. Joe Almeida the Provincial of Guwahati, were well prepared and designed to prod the participants to concrete action. The outcome: there was a concerted ‘yes’ to the call to create a culture of vocations in the provinces. Searching for ways and means to do it the participants came up with the following possibilities – to create an awareness among every confrere about the mind of the congregation regarding the project and process of Vocation Guidance being part of the larger picture of Youth Ministry; to create systems – like networked teams, networked departments – within the provinces to ensure a holistic vocation ministry; to initiate activities that require holistic plans and participation of all the Salesians passionate about their life and its meaning and witness; to nurture good catholic families and to convince oneself and the provinces that vocations are primarily fruits of our personal and collective witness of life.

The departing feeling of the participants was one of joy and optimism that we are passionate about the Spirit that Don Bosco has left as our legacy and that it is enough for us to rekindle the energy as individuals and provinces to relaunch this specific mission in South Asia – to create a culture of vocations!

Antony Christy sdb

HAND BOOK 2011

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2010.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Last but not the least:

40. Please share this to everyone you care about.

LIFE IS A VOCATION - 01

New Year of 2011: hope it will be peaceful and full of the blessings which the Father wants to give us in the incarnation of his Son.
The magnificent hymn in the Letter to the Ephesians, speaks of God’s plan of salvation. “Before the world was made, he chose us, chose us in Christ, to be holy and spotless and to live through love in his presence determining that we should become his adopted sons …” (1:4-5). Letter to the Romans also says: “They are the ones he chose specially long ago and intended to become true images of his Son …” (8:29).

The Greatest & most Important Blessing: In God’s plan of Salvation, we are called… have been created by Him in order to reproduce the image of his Son through the only thing which can make us like Him: love.

Human life is significant; the discovery of the meaning of human existence is the dream to be  fulfilled, the mission to be undertaken in this world. This fills our life with meaning, joy and vigour making it fruitful.

Life is a vocation. It is a real experience of living to the full... discovering and following one's vocation.

Adapted from the Rector Major's Letter for January.... watch out for 02, 03 & 04